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May 2, 2022

Failure to Launch

It's awkward to end a relationship that hasn't really began. This week, Hiwote takes a turn in the daters seat and rethinks how m…

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April 25, 2022

Flirt: Khan Date 2

It's very easy for a date to feel like a performance. So how do you flirt without pretending to be someone you're not? This week,…

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April 18, 2022

Are Open Relationships Right for Me?

Maybe you only date one person at a time. Maybe you don’t. Whether you’re raising a family with your polycule or considering open…

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April 11, 2022

What I Hear Is Fear: Virginia's Session with Esther Perel

Loyal to the pattern. Everytime I love a guy, I love them more. And when I get attached, it's harder to say goodbye.

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April 4, 2022

Love Letters: Manny

This week we welcome our friends at Love Letters from PRX and The Boston Globe. Meredith Goldstein is an advice columnist and hos…

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March 28, 2022

Deep: Amanda Date 2

Vulnerability is the closest we can get to intimacy with our clothes on. And the only way to go there is to push through the spor…

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March 21, 2022

Attachment Styles: Do They Matter?

There is no dearth of relationship quizzes out there that will help you determine how you attach. But does how you were loved as …

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March 14, 2022

Hot Available Guy: Virginia Date 2

Available shouldn't mean unsexy, right? Sadly, it does for many of us. This week, Virginia questions what really turns her on.

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March 7, 2022

Four Strangers Talk About Love

Before we ever set them up on dates, we sat them down all together. Listen in as Amanda, Aziz, Khan and Virginia talk through th…

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Feb. 28, 2022

Intimidating: Amanda Date 1

It's hard to priorize dating when your first dates never lead to second ones. This week, Amanda rethinks the time she's willing t…

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Feb. 21, 2022

Death of Desirability?

There are conversations you replay over in your mind weeks or months after you've heard them. The lastest Aziz and Manny date br…

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Feb. 14, 2022

Attached: Aziz Date 2

Aziz and Manny are both keenly aware of their attachment styles. But we're all different around different people, right? This wee…

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Feb. 7, 2022

Bad First Dates

How bad was your worst first date? Whatever it was, we can almost guarantee these stories are far worse.

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Jan. 31, 2022

Update: For James Fans Only

When James went on a blind date with Aziz, many of you wrote in to tell us how much you loved him. This week, Hiwote has a follo…

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Jan. 24, 2022

Love Bombing: Khan Date 1

Khan is good at falling in love. He's also good at wooing everyone around him. On this week's date, he questions the root of his …

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Jan. 10, 2022

The List: Aziz Date 1

Aziz knows what he likes in a partner. So much so that he's got a list of requirements. This week, he explores what straying from…

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Jan. 10, 2022

Chemistry: Virginia Date 1

Is it chemistry or are you just turned on by his unavailability? Meet Virginia, a 30-something lawyer looking for the love of her…

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Dec. 15, 2021

Introducing: This Is Dating

Introducing This Is Dating: A Series of Recorded First Dates from Magnificent Noise

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